How Do Seniors Who Can’t Drive Get Around?

How Do Seniors Who Can’t Drive Get Around?

What it costs when you can’t drive anymore, what Medicare does and doesn’t pay for, what to do when a parent won’t stop driving, and what may be coming with self-driving cars.

Direct Answer: How do seniors who can’t drive get around? They count on family and friends, paid rides, community buses, or volunteer drivers. Every one of those costs money, time, or a favor from someone. Retirement plans budget for the car but often not for losing the driver.12 A 2002 national study, the most recent one we could find on this, found that drivers age 70 to 74 could expect to keep driving about 11 more years. After that, men could expect to need other ways to get around for about 7 years, and women for about 10 years.1

At What Age Do Most Seniors Give Up Driving?

There is no set age. Many people keep driving well into their 70s. About 80 percent of people age 75 and older still drive.2

The bigger question is how long you’ll live after you stop. A national study of drivers age 70 and older found that drivers age 70 to 74 could expect about 11 more years behind the wheel.1 Men that age could expect to need other rides for about 7 years after that. Women could expect about 10 years, because women tend to live longer.1 That study is from 2002. It is the most recent national study we could find on how many years people live after they stop driving. If a newer one comes out, we’ll update this page.

That’s 7 to 10 years of needing someone to get you to the doctor, the pharmacy, the grocery store, and the grandkids’ ball games.

Does your retirement plan have a line for those years?

What Is the Largest Expense for a 65-Year-Old Retiree?

Housing. Households headed by someone age 65 to 74 spent $22,329 on housing in 2024.3

Transportation came next, at $11,414. That’s more than the same households spent on healthcare, which was $7,715.3 Total spending for these households was $65,354 for the year.3

Healthcare gets a lot of attention in retirement planning. The car costs more.

How Much Does the Average Retiree Spend on Transportation Each Year?

Households headed by someone age 65 to 74 spent $11,414 on transportation in 2024.3 Households headed by someone age 75 or older spent $6,855.4

The car is how older people get around. People age 50 and older make 92 percent of their local trips in a private vehicle.2

When you stop driving, the gas and insurance bills can go away. The trips don’t. You still have to get to the doctor and the store, and somebody has to take you. That costs money, someone’s time, or both.

How Do Seniors Who Can’t Drive Get Around?

People who stop driving get around in a few main ways:

Family and friends. This costs nothing in dollars, but it costs them time. It also only works if they live close and are free when you need to go. Some adult children end up cutting back at work to do it.

Taxis and ride apps. You pay for every trip, every time.

Community buses and vans. In rural Missouri, that is often OATS Transit, a nonprofit that serves 87 Missouri counties.7

Volunteer drivers and local programs. Your local Area Agency on Aging can tell you what is available near you. The Eldercare Locator, a public service of the federal Administration for Community Living, can help you find transportation resources. Call 1-800-677-1116 or search by ZIP code on its website.6

Rides through Medicare Advantage or Medicaid. Some plans cover rides to medical appointments. The next section covers who pays for what.

It isn’t a small problem. We looked at the newest Health and Retirement Study data from the University of Michigan. Of the 2,509 people surveyed who answered the question, 107, about 4.3 percent, said lack of transportation had kept them from medical appointments or from getting their medicine in the past 12 months.5 About 4.7 percent said it had kept them from other appointments, from work, or from getting things they needed for daily living.5

Does Medicare Offer Free Transportation for Seniors?

Original Medicare doesn’t pay for regular rides to your appointments.8

It does pay for a ground ambulance when riding in any other vehicle could put your health in danger.9 It may also pay for a non-emergency ambulance ride if your doctor writes an order saying the ambulance ride is medically necessary.9

Some Medicare Advantage plans include rides. In 2026, 22 percent of people in Medicare Advantage plans open to anyone were in a plan that offered transportation benefits. That was down from 28 percent in 2025.10 Special needs plans, which are Medicare Advantage plans for people with major care needs or people who have both Medicare and Medicaid, did better. 73 percent of the people in them had a transportation benefit.10

If you qualify for Medicaid, federal rules require your state to make sure you have the rides you need to and from your medical providers.11

A ride to the doctor still doesn’t get you to lunch with your friends or to your granddaughter’s recital.

What Does a Normal Week Look Like Without a Car?

Joseph Coughlin, founder and director of the MIT AgeLab, suggests one simple question: “Walk me through Friday if you couldn’t drive.”12

Try it. Write down every trip you make in a normal week. The doctor. The pharmacy. The grocery store. The haircut. Coffee with friends. The grandkids’ games.

Now go down the list. Who drives you? What does it cost? How long do you wait for the ride home?

Which of those trips would you give up first?

What May Be Coming: Could a Self-Driving Car Be Your Driver?

None of this is available to you today, and nobody knows for sure when it will be.

Driverless taxis are already on the road in some big cities. As of July 2026, Tesla was running taxis with no one behind the wheel in Dallas, Houston, Miami, Orlando, and Tampa, with a mix of both in Austin.13 Three of those cities are in Florida. None are in Missouri, Kansas, Nebraska, or Iowa.

Regular owners can’t put their own cars on that taxi network yet. Tesla’s chief executive, Elon Musk, said in July 2025 that he was confident owners would be able to add their own cars to the taxi network in 2026.14 In September 2026, he was still describing it as a plan, a mix of Uber and Airbnb where owners would put their own cars on the network to earn money.15 He said what owners earn would be more than their monthly car payment.15 That is his claim, and nobody can test it until it launches.

The self-driving feature Tesla sells on its cars today still needs a driver. Tesla says it is “intended to be used only with a fully attentive driver.”16 That means a Tesla you buy today can’t drive someone who can’t drive.

When I first read about this, I thought it could solve this problem for a lot of people who need a driver. If I couldn’t drive, I could buy a car that drives me to the doctor, drops me off at the door, goes and parks, and comes back to get me. And if money were tight, the car could work as a taxi when I’m not using it, to help pay for itself, maybe even pay for the whole thing. It isn’t here yet. But it looks like it may be coming in the not too distant future. I talk about it with prospects and clients, because the time to think about it is before you need it.

What to Do If an Elderly Parent Won’t Stop Driving?

Talking to a parent about their driving is hard. The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration says it plainly: “Talking with an older person about their driving is often difficult.”17 Its advice for family is three steps: collect information, develop a plan of action, and follow through on the plan.17

What to watch for: changes in vision, physical fitness, attention, and how quickly they react to sudden changes.17

If talking doesn’t work, each of the five states we serve has a way to ask the state to take a look.

Missouri

Immediate family members, meaning a spouse, parent, child, grandparent, sibling, or grandchild, can file a Driver Condition Report, Form 4319. Your name is kept confidential unless a court requires it. The state may require a physical exam or a driving test.18

Kansas

Family members can send the state a signed Letter of Concern. It has to describe the driving problem and include the driver’s name and date of birth or Kansas driver’s license number. Letters of Concern are kept confidential.19

Nebraska

The Nebraska DMV has a form for this called the Citizen Reexamination Report.20

Iowa

Anyone can send a signed, written request for re-examination, Form 431030. Iowa says it will try to keep your name confidential, but the driver has the legal right to know who made the request if they ask.21

Florida

Concerned relatives can report a driver to the state’s Medical Review program. Florida law keeps the report confidential, and no legal action can be taken against the person who makes it.22

Taking the keys is only half of it. The other half is what replaces the car. If you become the ride, that has a cost for you too.

How We Would Look at This

Spending in retirement usually eases in the middle “slow-go” years, then often goes back up late in life when health and care costs move to the front. Losing the car can add a new bill right in those later years. Rides are only one of the costs that can come later in life. See how much long-term care costs per month.

Our approach starts with the life you want, not the size of your savings. We build an income floor from guaranteed income you can’t outlive, what we call Protected Lifetime Income. It covers your essentials, the adventures, the experiences, and the memories with the people you love. Once that income floor is in place, the rest of your money can be long-term money again, free to grow. That’s the money that can pay for rides, a driver, or a car that drives itself if one comes along.

When you can’t drive anymore, will the money be there to keep doing the things that matter to you?

Frequently Asked Questions

At what age do most seniors stop driving?

There is no set age. About 80 percent of people age 75 and older still drive.2 A 2002 national study, the most recent one we could find on this, found that drivers age 70 to 74 could expect to keep driving about 11 more years.1

Does Medicare pay for rides to the doctor?

Original Medicare doesn’t pay for regular rides to appointments.8 It pays for an ambulance when any other ride could put your health in danger, and sometimes for a non-emergency ambulance ride with a doctor’s order.9 In 2026, 22 percent of people in Medicare Advantage plans open to anyone had a plan with transportation benefits.10 Medicaid requires states to make sure people on Medicaid have needed rides to and from their providers.11

Can family members be held liable for letting an elderly parent drive?

In general, if you lend your car to someone you know is an unsafe driver, you could be held responsible for injuries or damage they cause. This is called negligent entrustment.23 The rules are different in every state. This is general information, not legal advice. Talk to a lawyer in your state about your situation.

How do I report an unsafe older driver?

Each of the five states we serve has a way to do it. Missouri uses the Driver Condition Report, Form 4319.18 Kansas takes a signed Letter of Concern.19 Nebraska has the Citizen Reexamination Report.20 Iowa uses Form 431030.21 Florida takes reports through its Medical Review program.22

Can a self-driving Tesla drive someone who can’t drive?

Not today. Tesla says the self-driving feature it sells is “intended to be used only with a fully attentive driver.”16 Tesla has talked about letting owners add their cars to its driverless taxi network, but as of September 2026 that is still a plan.15

Where can seniors find rides in their area?

The Eldercare Locator, a public service of the Administration for Community Living, can help you find transportation resources near you. Call 1-800-677-1116.6

About Kurt H. Jackson, Retirement Lifestyle Architect

Kurt H. Jackson, Retirement Lifestyle Architect

Experience

Kurt H. Jackson has spent more than 16 years working directly with retirees and pre-retirees in Missouri, Nebraska, Kansas, Iowa, and Florida, helping them turn the savings they spent a lifetime building into a paycheck they can’t outlive. Before founding KJ Financial, he spent 20 years as a Certified Mortgage Planner working with more than 1,000 clients on major financial decisions. He has seen firsthand how a protected, guaranteed paycheck changes the way retirees handle every market up and down, and how it frees them to actually spend on the life they worked for.

Expertise

Kurt is a Retirement Lifestyle Architect and the creator of the Lifestyle-First Retirement Income Planning framework. He is Life and Health Insurance Licensed in MO, NE, KS, IA, and FL. His practice focuses exclusively on insurance-based, tax-optimized retirement income strategies including guaranteed lifetime income, which we call Protected Lifetime Income or PLI, Roth conversion planning, and the Retirement Tax Avalanche. He does not manage investments or sell securities.

Authoritativeness

Kurt founded KJ Financial and operates MaxMyRetirementIncome.com as a dedicated educational resource for retirees. His Lifestyle-First framework starts with the retirement the client actually wants, builds a guaranteed income floor to make it certain rather than probable, and manages the remaining assets as true long-term money. The research supporting this approach comes from firms like J.P. Morgan, BlackRock and Morningstar, and from peer-reviewed academic work by David Blanchett, Michael Finke and others. The framework connecting them is his.

Trustworthiness

KJ Financial is a compliance-first firm. All educational content on this page reflects current law and research as of 2026 and is subject to change. Kurt H. Jackson is not a securities broker, registered investment advisor, or CPA. Nothing on this page constitutes personalized tax or legal advice. Guaranteed income strategies involve real costs and require careful planning based on your individual circumstances.

Sources

  1. A national study of drivers age 70 and older found that drivers age 70 to 74 could expect about 11 more years of driving, and would then depend on other transportation for about 7 years (men) and about 10 years (women). Foley, Heimovitz, Guralnik and Brock, “Driving Life Expectancy of Persons Aged 70 Years and Older in the United States,” American Journal of Public Health, 2002.
  2. AARP says people age 50 and older make 92 percent of their local trips by private vehicle, and 80 percent of people age 75 and older drive. AARP Policy Book, “Safe Driving.”
  3. Households headed by someone age 65 to 74 spent $65,354 in 2024, including $22,329 on housing, $11,414 on transportation, and $7,715 on healthcare. U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, Consumer Expenditure Survey, as published by the Federal Reserve Bank of St. Louis (FRED).
  4. Households headed by someone age 75 or older spent $6,855 on transportation in 2024. U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, Consumer Expenditure Survey, “Expenditures: Transportation by Age: Age 75 or over,” via FRED.
  5. KJ Financial original research from the 2024 Health and Retirement Study: of 2,509 people surveyed who answered yes or no, 107 said lack of transportation kept them from medical appointments or medicine in the past 12 months, and 119 said it kept them from other appointments, work, or things needed for daily living. This analysis uses Early Release data from the Health and Retirement Study, 2024 HRS Early Core, sponsored by the National Institute on Aging (grant number NIA U01AG009740) and conducted by the University of Michigan. These data have not been cleaned and may contain errors that will be corrected in the Final Public Release version of the dataset.
  6. The Eldercare Locator, a public service of the Administration for Community Living, helps older adults find transportation resources by ZIP code or at 1-800-677-1116.
  7. OATS Transit is a nonprofit rural transportation provider serving 87 Missouri counties.
  8. AARP explains that Original Medicare pays for emergency ambulance rides and some approved non-emergency ambulance rides, but not routine rides to appointments.
  9. Medicare.gov explains when Medicare covers emergency and non-emergency ambulance rides.
  10. KFF found that 22 percent of people in individual Medicare Advantage plans, and 73 percent of people in special needs plans, were in plans offering transportation benefits in 2026.
  11. Medicaid.gov explains that states must assure necessary transportation for Medicaid members to and from their providers.
  12. Joseph Coughlin of the MIT AgeLab explains that retirement plans budget for the car but not for losing the driver, and asks, “Walk me through Friday if you couldn’t drive,” in “The Retirement Number You Probably Haven’t Calculated for Your Client,” Rethinking65, September 15, 2026.
  13. Tesla’s driverless taxi service ran with no one behind the wheel in Dallas, Houston, Miami, Orlando and Tampa as of July 2026. Not a Tesla App, July 21, 2026.
  14. In July 2025, Elon Musk said he was confident Tesla would let owners add their own cars to its robotaxi network in 2026. Fortune, July 23, 2025.
  15. Musk described Tesla’s plan for owners to put their cars on its robotaxi network as a combination of Uber and Airbnb and said owner earnings would exceed the monthly car payment. Seoul Economic Daily, September 13, 2026.
  16. Tesla says Full Self-Driving (Supervised) is intended to be used only with a fully attentive driver and does not turn a Tesla into a fully autonomous vehicle.
  17. The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration’s guide for older drivers and their families.
  18. The Missouri Department of Revenue explains how family members and professionals can report an unsafe driver with the Driver Condition Report, Form 4319.
  19. The Kansas Department of Revenue explains how family members can send a confidential Letter of Concern about a driver.
  20. The Nebraska Department of Motor Vehicles lists the Citizen Reexamination Report among its driver licensing forms.
  21. The Iowa Department of Transportation explains how anyone can request a driver re-examination with Form 431030.
  22. Florida’s Department of Highway Safety and Motor Vehicles explains how relatives can report a driver to its Medical Review program, and that reports are confidential.
  23. FindLaw explains negligent entrustment, when a car owner can be held responsible for harm caused by someone they lent the car to.

Every figure on this page was checked against its numbered source on September 23, 2026.

KJ Financial
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Direct: 816.582.5532
Email: kurt@kjfinancialonline.com
Website: www.MaxMyRetirementIncome.com
Last updated: September 23, 2026

All figures are as of the dates shown and are for education only. Medicare, Medicaid, and state driver licensing rules vary by state and change. This page is not legal advice. Questions about liability or reporting a driver in your state belong with an attorney in your state.

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